」文子曰:「異日吾好音,此子遺吾琴;吾好佩,又遺吾玉。
I was fond of hanging pendants, and this man gave me ones of jade.
是不非吾過者也,自容於我者也,吾恐其以我求容也。
That shows he was not concerned to point out my excesses but wished instead to gain a secure position with me.
」遂不入。
I fear that on this occasion he will make use of me to seek security for himself.” With this, he declined to visit the man’s dwelling.