」孔子曰:「蒲多壯士,又難治也;然吾語汝:恭以敬,可以攝勇;寬以正,可以容眾;恭以潔,可以親上。」
But my advice to you is to be deferential and respectful: that way you can awe the bold ones into submission; to be tolerant and just: that way you can gain the support of the general populace; to be deferential and scrupulous; that way you can gain the trust of your superiors.” Kongzi Gives Zigong Advice Concerning Behavior in Office